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Friendships are also complex dances that can end in tears and breakups. If some of your connections just don't feel right anymore, you might be wondering how to know when to end a friendship. Other times, there are almost daily, blazing red flags for gaslighting, disrespectful, and toxic friendships.

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You don't have to play that limbo game, because you really can set the bar higher. The Friend Who Judges You Wanr Your Goals Your friends will call you out when you're making mistakes, but there's a big difference between how you feel when your bestie is giving you solid advice even if it's tough to swallowand how you feel when a pal is judging you and your dreams.

Is Anyone Else This Isolated?

Reality checks are often needed, but when the response to your big dream is "ew, why would you want to do that? The "I'm Just Being Honest" Friend "You are really clingy in relationships," they tell you when you're worried about your girlfriend shutting down when you try to talk to her about emotions. Your pal might be telling you things with grains of truth, but that's never the full picture.

You deserve someone who's nicer about it when they think there's a tough truth you have to confront. You really do want to hear about their job, but you juat wish they'd give you the same emotional space in return.

A friendship is supposed to be a two-way street, after all. If you've friens explaining to them that you need more attention in the relationship and they haven't changed their behavior even if they apologized and said they heard youthey might just be waving ye old red flag.

The Friend Who Is Only Your Friend When It's Convenient Maybe they're in between datefriends, or they're in town and need a place to fo, even though they haven't answered your texts in months. If you feel like they're not exactly using you ralk, but they're only a strong presence in your life when they don't really have anything else going on, it's reasonable to start to wonder if you need them in your life at all.

The Friend Who Doesn't Respect Your Identities You're stoked to introduce your inner circle to your new girlfriend, but they say you're just "going through a phase. Maybe waant been best friends since you were kids, so they say they're really used to your old pronouns and name.

But if they use your identity to diminish or belittle you, or make zero effort to understand you, they are definitely not a person you need in your life. It's one thing if they got a promotion and you're so happy for them but it reminds you that you're not quite ttalk you want to be yet. It's completely another situation when your pal celebrates themself by putting you down, constantly implying or even directly saying that they're waant smartest and most successful person in the room.

Sure enough, it can be painful, but it's alright to shrug your shoulders and say, "We had a beautiful connection once, and I'm grateful for it: but now we're just in really different places.

It doesn't frienc you a bad person — it's just about bringing your full self to the table each day, and sometimes our full selves just don't match with old friends anymore. Whether it's venting about the ex they saw over the weekend, you always seem to be there for them, while they're always be busy when you need help processing a work crisis of your own.

You deserve more reciprocity than that. If you have that buddy who guilt trips you for asserting your boundaries or communicating your needs, these symptoms of a bad friendship are likely to pop up everywhere. If "guilt trip" isn't on your list of dream destinations, saying goodbye is more than acceptable.

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The Friend Who Violates Your Trust You want to be able to tell your best friend about that fight you and your partner had, including the parts where you kind of messed up. Bayard was patient and listened to me vent.

I told her I almost canceled our session out of pure shame. Most people, I thought, make friends without a strategy or game friwnd. Those with social anxiety struggle because they are in their head and second guess themselves.

I felt ready to hear what Bayard had in store for me and was happy to know that there were only three challenges she wanted me to tackle over the next month to help me make friends. I wrote each tal down and devoted at least one week to following through on them.

The first thing Bayard advised me to do was take inventory of people I know and who they know.